My Wife Got Pregnant By Another Man

The Surrogacy Journey From the Husband’s Point of View

JP Brown
6 min readFeb 6, 2024
Photo by Suhyeon Choi on Unsplash

Sorry about the clickbait headline.

However, it really is completely true… and I was in the room to watch!

Before I go into the story, let’s back up the clock by about nine years.

The general story is this: I was married to someone else, and my now-wife was married to someone else. I was unhappy, she was unhappy. We found each other, and now both of us are happy.

We both still have great relationships with our exes. It’s a weird dynamic, but it works for us. More importantly, it works for our kids.

One thing my wife really didn’t enjoy about being married to her ex is that whenever she had a crazy idea, a lofty goal, or a fun vision, his very first knee-jerk reaction was to shoot down the idea immediately.

There’s too much going on next week to go to the beach.

You can’t apply for that extremely rare opportunity that has landed in your lap. What would we



JP Brown

Entrepreneur/business owner ( Lover of the simple things, always questioning why. Committed to truth, not consistency.