That was the therapy. We went weekly for 4+ months. I think therapy *did* work, but not with the end result of “us being back in love.” It gave us tools to talk openly and better. It made us realize we aren’t at all on the same communication plane. It helped us realize it was doomed before it even started – simply because of how different we are on base levels. It helped us remain close, even though no longer married. So, I think working things out got the best possible outcome.